What does friendship mean to you? What do your friends mean to you? In high school, there tends to be a lot of drama, for most people at least. Drama can tear friends apart. It's a sad thing, but it is true. Friends can break apart because of drama from boys, stress, lies, betrayal, and any other wrongdoing. Some people are good at forgiving and some aren't. When you are fighting with your friend, you need to think about the factors that are in it. Is it all worth fighting with your friend, upsetting each other, and possibly ruining your friendship? Sometimes, friends really do come and go, like boys. That doesn't mean you should just throw away your friendships! I have seen girls lose friends that they have had since they were in first grade, second grade, etc. Drifting apart and losing a friend that way is so much different than having drama between you and losing them that way. Just stop, think about what is upsetting you, find ways to calm yourself, and separate yourself from certain people until you are no longer mad. Just think about what you are thinking about.
What to do when boys come between you and your friend:
It hurts pretty bad when you like a boy and your friend "steals" him away from you. Maybe, they liked them and you "stole" them from your friend? Whatever the case may be, if a boy is involved...drama, more than likely, will be present. What you can do is try to remain calm without assuming anything. Listen to your friend's side of the story and go from there to find conclusions on how to make things work out. Sometimes, spending time away from this person can really help you. It just helps to clear the mind, relax, and just remove the tension ( if you are actually trying to let it go ). Keep this in mind : Best friends DON'T talk bad about each other! If you were ever a true friend to someone, you won't talk bad about them even if you guys are no longer friends. If you are as good of a person as you say you are, then prove it!
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