Relationships aren't just boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife. Relationships cover way more than just that. You have a certain type of relationship with your parents, friends, siblings, strangers, etc. What is a definition of relationships? Relationships are connections between two or more people or groups and their involvement with one another, especially as regards the way they behave toward and feel about one another. What kind of relationship do you have with people? What are your feelings towards boyfriend/girlfriend relationships? Any other relationship?In my opinion, relationships are very important to maintain. It takes effort from every person to have a healthy relationship. Have you ever yelled at someone you care about just because you are stressed or are just in a bad mood? Have you ever told someone you love something that you absolutely regret? Sometimes it is hard to hold in our emotions whether they are sad, angry or frustrated emotions. Every decision you make has a consequence. Try thinking about what you are thinking about. What does this mean, you ask? This means to simply think about what you are already thinking about saying or doing. Here is an example that I hope helps you to better understand what I am talking about :
When my boyfriend and I first started dating, we would get into a few arguements that I would unnecessarily take way overboard. Instead of just being calm and try to find a better understanding, I would just yell and throw names out at my boyfriend. This would really hurt him. I thought about what to say before I spoke but I didn't really think about how what I was thinking about saying could affect him and I. Finally, I took the time to just sit and listen to his feelings and I realized what I had been doing. I could have eventually lost him! This was a scary thought for me and it was enough to motivate me to change my ways and my actions, especially when a fight between him and I would occur. I just knew that something had to be done because a person can only take so much of that. It hurts me to know that I did all of that to my wonderful boyfriend that has always been there for me.I am here telling you this story today because it is important for you to take your time to think out everything. If you love someone or care about someone, then you obviously don't want to hurt them. If you truly do care about them or love them, then you will take that extra time to analyze your thoughts so that you don't make the mistake of doing or saying that you will seriously regret. I hope that this post helped you today to realize a few things. Please, if you have any comments on this, then post one on here and I will get back to you.
- Andrea *
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